Originally Posted by LH19
W,

That’s not what you said. You asked do you like them and wait to for them to like you back. Some women will reach out. Most want the man to make the first move.

Seriously exclusivity after two meetings and no intimacy? Do you think you’re ready for a relationship?

Sorry Harvey for the hijack!


Dude, we are on the same page if you don't see that.....your previous message came off sort of accusatory in saying "I thought you were in a long distance relationship already?" My response was specifically telling you that no, I don't consider myself in a relationship and gave the reasons why I don't feel as though I am.

With re: to Match, I think you are misunderstanding my question. I was merely wondering what harvey's game plan has been and explained that, between my two posts, my process has been to 'like' someone and if they 'like' me back I would reach out and make the first move (e.g. a message). I'm simply explaining that by me hitting 'like', I kind of assumed that was the first move. With that said, I suppose girls on any dating site, especially the very attractive ones, get inundated with 1,000s of likes and tons of messages, so me hitting 'like' isn't enough, I suppose. If someone is seriously interested, it probably takes sending out a message.


M: 34 W:34
D:7 D:6 S:3

M: 9.5 years T: 12

OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18
IHS begins
W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18
W files: 12/21/18
D Final: 2/25/19