180 Counterproductive?

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LH19
I know what you mean, but I've given her a buttload of space except for like every 10 days we have a 5 min talk on average. I think so much that it made her withdraw even more? When she first asked for space she wanted to go out on dates and talk a lot...so once I pulled back, she pulled back quite a bit.

Now when I try to be cool and engage with her shes highly receptive? I guess. As long as I avoid heavy talk she seems into it. It's definitely easy to back away for me to be honest, but it's like shes wanting to spend time together, just not talking about the relationship. I guess this could be her trying to keep me plan B. Iceberg occurred to me too but I haven't turned up anything bigger.

R2C
I'll check that out. I'm sure I'll hate it inside, but I need to read it.


They both went inactive at the same time today before her appointment, and she never told me she was heading out. But she seemed excited to go out tomorrow with me and half the time proposes it herself when I'm cool to be around. Interesting. Im sure this did start as platonic deep normal friendship and now she's crushing on him and his ego is into it.

At least I'm able to focus on work for the most part today. At least so far she's never asked to separate or divorce. At least. Maybe she'll actually get that book her counselor is suggesting.