Perhaps this is misguided and a mistake, but I'm trying to see what happens if I take the lead a little bit. This is a huge 180 for me in a way - I was always aimless, not fun, and indifferent. It seems a 180 on this will fit with some of the philosophy of being attractive to your wife, so I may try to attract her. When I am doing this, things are better.
So I've flirted with her last night and today and basically said "were going to do xxx" tomorrow and she seemed really excited about that. It's almost like she's wanting me to start leading. I think that's about the most important 180 I can do when I look back at our relationship - be the man and lead.
It might blow up in my face, but it's what I want to do for me honestly, just to challenge myself.
Last edited by oops13; 05/02/1908:15 PM.
May: discover PA April: MC pending IC, back in MBR, discover EA March: different bedrooms, IC Jan 19: ILYBINILWY
