My H comes this evening to see our daughter and I’m still feeling really torn about this. A big part of me feels like the extreme distancing I’ve been doing (leaving every time he comes here, as opposed to having dinner with them etc as I was before) has been having a positive effect. There’s also another part of me that worries about taking it too far and losing the connection we are building a tiny bit at a time. I worry that if I’m NEVER around he will disconnect entirely and not have anything reference points to missing me, if that makes sense. Should I be mixing in occasional dinners together when it arises naturally? Or should I continue to make myself scarce? Any advice would be great as I prepare for tonight. Happy to give more info or details if it would be helpful!
