I told her 6 months early on she said she heard that but I thought it was too long. Then the conversation got dropped and she has not brought it up directly again.
I have told her that I really like her, could see myself falling in love with her, really enjoy our time together, and told her I wasn't going anywhere. I also told her I was scared and she said she was as well.
In two weeks it will be 4 months and meeting my kids is different than having full blown dinner and sleep overs. Just because she meets them doesn't mean we will immediately start hanging out as one big happy family.
Really at this point there is no reason not to other than we have only known each other for just under 4 months. She is a smart, educated, disease free, Doctor that owns her own practice in our town. I can see a future with her but obviously I have no idea if it will end in marriage.