I think all of us on here don’t truly realize the pain our WWs were in to leave. I know my ex gave up a lot. She got way lesser of a house, she doesn’t get invites to mutual friends parties, the security of my job and pension, use of my family cottage which she loved. Everyone thinks she’s crazy for leaving that all behind so that just tells me how unhappy she was the last 3-4 years. I had a lot to do with it even though it wasn’t my attention. My needs weren’t being met and her needs weren’t being met and we didn’t have the tools to figure it out together. Both of our parents have crummy relationships so guess what we modeled.
180s are for yourself for future relationships with or without you ex. It’s a tough lesson to learn but most lessons are learned by going through rough times. As time goes by she’ll remember the good times more then the bad times and if the timing is right you may be able to give it another go.
Remember your just ending the first mile of the marathon.
Last edited by Cadet; 05/02/1908:43 PM. Reason: Start a new thread message
