si, what does her removing her ring change? You are still married. She is still walkaway. Wearing a ring. Not wearing a ring. Shaving her head. Jumping on a pogo stick...... none of that matters.
You need to detach. I've told lots of LBSs, even if your spouse came to you and told you that they had a gangbang with 100 people, you should let it roll off your back like water off a duck. You need to get to a place where you are not reacting emotionally.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018