Ugh... I would have been upset about the front seat situation too and I think dillydaff is right...I read that and immediately thought he was punishing you and using D12 to do it. Even with my H and I days away from divorce, he would have told our daughter to sit in the back and given that he is King Douchebag of Douchbag Land, that’s saying a lot. It’s a respect thing... adults in the front. You H was intentionally trying to put you on the same level as your children. Very disrespectful IMO. It wasn’t about being in the front or the back...it was the underlying message. Honestly FS, you deserve so much better. I really hope that you finish off that dating profile of yours and meet some people who would see you as the fantastic woman that you are. I think you would be very glad you did. (((HUGS)))