Trying to understand comments like “this is about her” and the reason your posts overwhelmingly position you as a victim, instead of focusing on your 180s and personal growth.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16