Well thought I’d send out an update as it’s been about a year and a half since my last update:
Started dating again in early 2018, WW got wind of it and begged me to come back. Fine I owe it to my family to give it one last go. That lasted for a couple months before we started having parental differences so she gave me the vaunted I think we should separate and divorce. Being the new me rather than beg cower get angry I said “Fine but why the hell did you ask me to come back in the first place”. Don’t really remember her response and honesty at the time I didn’t really care.
Spent the summer of 2018 finding and moving into separate residences. Had her over for dinner before Thanksgiving and she broke down “I don’t want to be divorced” she spent the night and we did “sex with the ex”
Mind you at that time I’ve been living on my own and going out on dates so I wasn’t to keen on getting back together as this would be the fourth time.
Through all this I’ve realized one thing that I’ll relay to all the other LBH:
You will be alright the world is not ending.
and these words of wisdom that I saw on another board:
“Find your value as a man and find your confidence within. Once you do that you will realize that you don't need a woman to validate you.”
