Thanks KML and exquisitetobe.

Diane, I don't mind all of the advice coming in. I consider it all. Some will feel I should go and others don't think I should go. To be honest, I feel both ways...I should...I shouldn't.
My big thing is: if I go, will it make S24 uncomfortable? If I don't go, will it disappoint him? If I go, will I lose my cool? If I don't go, will I wish that I did?

Seriously, I'm good with all of the opinions and advice. Still undecided....

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13