I think it hit me that I only expected US to sell the house and move to something smaller together. A new chapter in our lives. Now it's just a new chapter in my life. One that I haven't chosen. I'm just having a little pity party. Even GAL couldn't prevent this one! lol.
I do feel better for letting it out to be honest. Perhaps it was needed. Maybe it was the final laying to rest.
Also, my friend separated from a cruel and abusive husband 18 months ago. She is finally opening up about years of cruelty. There is no way she could have stayed any longer. When I compared it to my sitch, I realised that our marital problems were literally nothing in comparison. So that made me cross. H got bored and felt unloved and this mess ensued. Even at my most indifferent I couldn't be described as cruel. There was nothing that couldn't be remedied with a small amount of effort on both parts. We wouldn't have been together for 30 years if it was so bad.
I saw your post about the locks. How you feeling about it? Have there been any repercussions?
