Originally Posted by si13
Well, I guess that answers the question should I gas up her car every Sunday night.....I would usually take 1 kid with me to set an example of what I thought a husband/daddy should do. I may still do it for that example.

Better yet with the coffee, I can have the kids take it upstairs. Something to think about.

Appreciate the feedback SoTorn.

She can get her own coffee and gas. Stop trying to make excuses of why you should still do these things. Sounds like you have a case of NGS. Don't send your kids to deliver her coffee either. And the getting gas for her as an example for your kids is just you trying to justify doing it. Your kids won't remember this. Set an example by being a strong, confident man that commands respect...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...