W:"H, why don't you bring me coffee anymore?"
H:"W, what are you talking about??"
W:"You stopped bringing me coffee bla bla bla"
H:"H, I guess I have been focused on other things"
W:Bla bla bla bla"

Then validate

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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