A Real Mess

[SoTorn]

"I am glad that you enjoyed me bringing you coffee in the past. Making coffee and bringing it to you every morning is something a husband would do. You fired me from that role. I am happy to brew the coffee in the morning and you are more than welcome to help yourself to a cup when I do".

This may seem petty, but her expecting you to bring her coffee is cake eating. She doesnt want you as H, but she wants the convenience of you. She wants to be catered to.

I stopped cleaning my STBXWW's car and doing the maintenance on it. When she crashed it, instead of the usual where I coordinated the insurance and repairs, I did nothing. My WW fired me from the role of her H and therefore she is not entitled to any of the conveniences I provided. That means she can figure out how to clean her car, keep it clean, maintain it and repair it when it needs as these are all things that I did as her husband that she obviously took for granted.