Got a DB question. For the last year and a half, I have brought my wife her coffee every morning which she has loved but clearly it hasn't made a difference and in fact is pursuit.

BUT now that I don't bring it up (I may brew it and leave it downstairs) what is an appropriate response to why I don't bring her coffee up anymore?

This is really a response to any kind of question that is pursuit related.

Thanks guys. Hope you're having a beautiful Wednesday.

H46
W38
M12
T15
D8,S7,S5

11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began
7/12/18 Confessed A
10/1/19 EA still happening with 2
4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"