oops, just be aware that all of this might be manipulation attempts. To get the vacation.
Your mistake as not listening and validating. That is what you should do when she starts an R talk. Listen. Use validating statements. If she pushes for anything deeper, you need to tell her "I need time to process everything. This is a lot to consider."
The ring. The cuddling. She has something she wants (vacation) and is manipulating you. I would tell her next time the vacation comes up: "I feel we should postpone it for now. We can always schedule it for later."
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
