I think the less I see him or hear from him, the less wobbly I feel. I can't think about that too hard today - I want a break from cogitating about the state of my marriage - but looking over my journal and threads on this site it is very clear to me that a) the less I see him the better I feel and b) when I see him I am often (though not always - it is a mixed and inconsistent bag!) disappointed, upset or subject to behaviour that isn't acceptable to me anymore.
