If the conversation is still all about her, just acknowledge it, validate it, and yes do shut it down. Start paying more attention to the interaction dynamics of conversation, and find and observe the give-and-take, of when she asks you questions about yourself and your position, and when it's all about her. You will know if it's half-hearted if most of the conversation is about her. When there is a balance of curiosity of both people seeking answers and wanting to make amends you will know it. You will sense a contrite heart based on the interaction
