There are no "right things" to say to her. Plus, communication is 60% nonverbal anyways. Actions and attitudes are what will help you more than words.

Just work on detachment and treat her like the cashier. You don't argue with her you don't get too talkative you just do your thing.

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Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.