F*ck she actually seems to be enjoying me DBing her.
Tonight after we put the kids to sleep I went downstairs to watch TV. I heard her on the phone with some automated thing but I wasn't going to hover around hoping she'd want to connect over a show.
She came down the stairs and said her 2 girlfriends were just hanging out and wondered if I'd mind if she went over. Before she could finish I said, "sure go and enjoy yourself!!"
She didn't get dolled up so I'm inclined to believe her she wasn't meeting anyone else. But at this point after 3 affairs I always wonder.
She temperature checked me right before she left. This is where I'm not sure about when a WAS starts asking about all the changes WHAT SHOULD MY RESPONSES BE???
She asked why I was downstairs and I replied I wanted to watch this show. She asked if it was to give her space and I replied again that I wanted to watch this show, I heard her on the phone so I was just hanging out downstairs.
Not sure how that went over if that's saying the right things. She left and I told her again "have fun!"
Any thoughts guys would be appreciated. At this point, I'm obviously reeling from the BD and she is feeling out this new found "freedom" and disinterest from her H that I'm thinking she both likes and makes her nervous as to why I'm detaching.
H46 W38 M12 T15 D8,S7,S5
11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began 7/12/18 Confessed A 10/1/19 EA still happening with 2 4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"
