Song sounds exactly like my WAW. I kind of understand how one could lose their identity in a co dependant relationship or marriage. I wish more women could explain to me how this happens over time though through their eyes, their perspective, and their experience?...Is it because they go through so many years, and so much trouble of wanting to be liked, wanting to be seen, wanting to be loved for who they are, that they sacrifice themselves to the point where they go numb and lose their identity?