FS, I am also a distancer. Its something I am working on. I still dont start conversations with my STBXW but I do chat with her now if she wants to talk. I got a couple of new tattoos. Yes I am an inky. She had also gotten one which is part of her GGW. But she wanted to show me and I said it was nice. I showed her mine, she liked one but was surprised at the other lol. A pair of lips on my upper chest. But she said it was nice and we talked about tattoo care and I gave her some after care products I use.

Thats much better than me before. Im trying to get along. No desire for an MR with her but I do want to be a good co-parent. Living in this house with her isnt comfortable for me. I dont feel at home at all anymore. But I see it fit to wait until D is done and I have all my money so I am fully prepared to move out. I still get zero consideration from her when she makes plans unfortunately. Meaning plans with the kids. Im just expected to accept whatever she wants.


M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019