It was cold and wet and S3 what running around with no shoes on, just socks. I asked XW where was his shoes. She said she is making him responsible for his own shoes and he forgot them. I said our 3 year old is running around soaking his socks on this cold day and you are telling me he forgot his shoes. She then got sheepish and said she messed up and forgot his shoes.
Google "parenting with love and logic"
natural consequences work well. As long as there is no "real" danger.
Determining when to criticize the others parenting is learned skill. Some things are worth calling out, others are not. Some need discussing.
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XW lets kids watch youtube unfettered.
I had my network locked down with OPENDNS. XWife bought kids smartphones with full access to everything. Pretty much worst thing you can give kids. Nothing I could do.
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I found out by what the kids told my mom, that XW uses my house as a scapegoat for punishment. Ex if you kids don't behave I am going to take you to your dads house, drop you off at your dads house, have you live with your dad.
Call her on her BS.Father "Mother, I heard this 'Bla bla bla'. is that true?"
Google "Divorce poison."
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
