My oldest birthday is tomorrow....the big 10!! That girl has went through quite a bit over the last couple of years and I am very proud of her. She is a very happy 10 yr old girl that loves her phone! I got her one of the Hoover boards.
On Saturday I asked the Dr. how she failed in her marriage. She told me she should have been more supportive of her husband, more understanding that she wasn't there for him when he needed her the most. I thought that was good perspective on her part. She said he didn't have the capacity/strength to help himself. She also said that she did make it clear to him that their R wasn't working but he didn't take what she conveyed to him seriously. Ultimately when they did Divorce it was a joint decision and he wanted out to.
I do think she is ready to meet my girls and I am scared to meet her son. She told me on Friday she would never push me to make it happen. I think both of us not pushing each other is the reason why we have lasted as long as we have. I am still looking around the 6 month mark, as we are only a couple of weeks away from 4 months. She has sent me quite a few pictures of him and he is a really cute kid.
She sent me a text on Sunday night "thanking" me for breakfast. Told me how much she appreciated me cooking for her and cleaning up the kitchen. She just wanted to me to know that it didn't go unnoticed. I thought that was really cool. We discussed just dating and not getting married again. She told me that she wants someone to come to, to share her day with, someone that will be there with her the companionship, etc.
It doesn't mean it will be her and I together but I did enjoy getting insight into her thoughts.
