1. My wife did not ask for space. Although she has complained at our last MC session that I am needy. That I need too much love from her and the kids. At our first MC session she said that I showed that I didn't love her because I didn't want to talk to her when I first got home from work while she cooked dinner. So, I have been cooking dinner with her most nights since.
2. Here is my back story - In January, I heard the ILYBIANILWY from my wife. I have been distraught and feeling hopeless ever since. I cry almost every day, and I am having trouble thinking about anything other than saving my marriage. I have just bought The Divorce Remedy and I am 58 pages into it. I will read the whole thing over the next day or two.
My wife and I have been married for over 21 years, and we have three children (16), (14) and (6). I have given everything I have to this family and now a facing complete and utter ruin to everything that is important to me. Never in a million years did I ever think I would be facing a divorce. I despise divorce. I adore my wife and my three children.
I think that my wife is both a walkaway wife and experiencing a MLC. Over the last three years she has become obsessive about her relationship with our daughter (16). My wife has had a very bad relationship with her own mother (a narcissist) who always invalidated my wife's feelings. Now my wife is talking as if I am her mother.
3. For GAL - I have been coming home from work, making dinner with my wife, having family dinner, and then I have been exercising. I have lost about 30 pounds since January.
