Breadcrumbs, dude. Believe nothing she says and only half of what she does. She's just trying to maintain control and keep you attached. Think nothing of it and keep DB'ing...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019