My wife continues to engage. She is so much closer to herself, she continues to initiate conversation. She has started to text me randomly again. She is playful and having fun with kids but ....
Last night I bring my son home from soccer and he gets into a tiff with his sister. My wife snaps at him to a point that he tells her to leave him alone. I talked to him and he asked me why mommy has changed. He said "Mommy has a bad attitude". I decided to chat with my 2 oldest sons 11 and 13. I asked if they have noticed something and they both said yes. I told them Mommy is going through something that we just need to be patient and loving. I said to not take her moments of anger personally and that if you get into trouble just simple say sorry and give her a hug. I also asked that they help out more around the house to alleviate stress.
My wife in the past 3 months does not get angry with me but does with the children. I am happy that she is acting more like herself, but disappointed she has these random moments of anger with the kids.