I think a lot of us here with our situations being someone on the same timeline, we're all getting closer and closer to being 100% done. It's almost like they distance, then we distance some more, then they retreat even more. then we retreat. Then they break trust, then we break trust, they move closer and closer to being done and then so do we. I was just telling Wolman. it's kind of like what the hell is the incentive or point of even sticking around? Other than rebuilding ourselves and giving them and us time and space to see if minds and hearts will change? even if they did how could trust ever be restored with it always being in the back of your mind if it was?