That was pretty poor behaviour from him, no wonder you were angry no matter whether it was a trigger or not. Having said that, it wasn't deliberate but it was inconsiderate and he really should have behaved better by bringing you the keys and apologising for forgetting when you'd reminded him so many times. Maybe D12 should also take some responsibility too! It's progress that you both smoothed things over later though. And you're definitely thinking about the whole distancer dynamic too, I can also see it in my other relationships as well. My best friends are all pursuers! I try my hardest to go against my distancing nature with them as well, now I've noticed it...
