My husband spent 3300 US$ for member ship of a gym, bought a lot of outfitter that are ugly(sorry), own money to the bank and have to pay the interest... he went wild, want to make new friends, young boys and girls, go party, drinking all weekend. Honestly, I would laugh at this man if he is not my husband, but I was grieving cause I hardly recognized my husband at that time

Label, focus on you and the children, get a life, give her time/space !