I could use some help in my response. I was thinking something like: H- I think it is time for me to get my own apartment. We can't sustain living like this. W- I can see why you feel that way. Do you have any idea when you're going to do that? Knowing would help me plan.
H:"W, bla bla bla I want to move out bla bla bla" W:"I am sorry you feel that way."
H:W, bla bla bla we can't sustain livling like this bla bla " W:"I agree. This is no way to live"
W"I see many solutions to our problems. If that is the only way for you to be happy, I will not stand in your way"
Thank you R2C. The last quote speaks much more to the way I feel. I will keep this in my back pocket to be ready when the time comes.
H is very distant and cold today. Not sure how to read into it. Or if I should even waste my time thinking about it. Almost wondering if something is going on with OW. Today was the first day he did not go to the gym in weeks. This is where they usually see each other. I'm not reading into it. Something just seems off, he's very down and cranky. I will just continue to GAL and be my pleasant, happy self
