He was always a late riser and his mother backed up that he had been like that his whole life so I just thought it was some sort of sleep disorder. I thought he had ocd issues (which his mother also told me) and that’s why he was always in the bathroom or couldn’t leave the house. It would take him forever to actually just get out of the house.
I was also really overwhelmed with son and work and I am disorganized and probably have adhd as well so it was really easy for him to deflect my money questions.