Talked to the OM for a while today. Kept it cool. I suspect this is a one-way thing for her tbh. Started as WAW because he is giving her excitement but it's not like he's really *into* her. Hard to know what I'm dealing with. In theory I guess it shouldn't matter, I just assume there are distinctions in how to act which I read about but seem to have forgotten.
That said, the relationship symptoms are the same.
May: discover PA April: MC pending IC, back in MBR, discover EA March: different bedrooms, IC Jan 19: ILYBINILWY
