you can't control or change your spouse, you can only control and change yourself. Time to focus on me and the kids for awhile, drama free (as low as I can possibly get that lol).
This is exactly where you need to be...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019