Thanks, and I agree even after what we went through 5 years ago, then drugs, I never was the divorce person either, but sometimes you just have to throw in the towel and realize you cant change a person's nature, only they can.
One of the groups I belong to has a good quote I've been tossing around in the ol noodle: you can't control or change your spouse, you can only control and change yourself. Time to focus on me and the kids for awhile, drama free (as low as I can possibly get that lol).
