Tried that 5 or so years ago, made changes to myself (some were harder than others), helped out more around the house, we talked more, but she lost the infatuation feelings and has been chasing those ever since. This is not just me saying that, but our MC, both of her BF's, and her IC (court appointed due to probation) as well. If she knew what love actually was, or looked like and not just the Hollywood version, then there might be a chance. As it stands right now, it would take a miracle from GOD to show her what she is losing. Even after I told her I wanted to proceed with the divorce, she had this I dont care body language. My view on marriage/relationships are completely opposite of what hers are at the moment from the conversations we have had.
