Working on R is hard enough. Working on R with a drug addict is beyond difficult. Your W sounds somewhat like mine. I'll have to come back and look through your sitch more thoroughly when I have time. Good luck, man. Keep your head up and be the best dad you can be for your kids...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019