Dang IHCLAS. That's one I'm anxious about. She's already been going out for 18 months with girlfriends, etc. In a way I'm prepared for it (even as I write this in my mind).
But up until she has had some sensitivity to my triggers about her affairs. She has tried to give me enough info to be "courteous and respectful".
F**** I hate this process.
H46 W38 M12 T15 D8,S7,S5
11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began 7/12/18 Confessed A 10/1/19 EA still happening with 2 4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"