My advice to you, Orange is to quit keeping tabs on her. Who cares what she's up to? You gotta quit letting her take up headspace. Looking to see if there were any weddings going on in a certain area seems fruitless to me. Like Steve said, it doesn't matter what you find out, she's just gonna deny and lie anyway. It will be in your favor to not care one bit where she goes or if she's cheating on OM1. Not your monkeys, not your circus. I know it can be hard and the desire to know can be overwhelming, but once you stop worrying about it, you'll feel a lot better,,
This. Plus as my counselor taught me: the truth has a way of always coming out. It doesn't need my help.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018