oops, I would also highly suggest you stop focusing on her so much. I know it is hard. But everything you do, you look for a response. You get back from walking the dogs and you are focused on what she does (texting, etc). You are worried she manipulated you into a massage. You notice that neither of you said "ILY" this morning.
DBing, with one eye over your shoulder will never ever ever work. Yes she is trying to keep you attached. That is her goal. She wants her Plan B squarely in place because Plan A is not solidified. Her worst fear right now is that Plan A goes away and Plan B has moved on too. SO expect more temp checking, and trying to keep you on the hook. That is what future planning by WASs is all about. "If I talk about summer plans, what will he say? How will he respond? Will I see him squarely still waiting for me?"
DB for you. 180 for you (so that you are an awesome person for your next R, whether it is with her or someone else.). GAL, for you. Detach, for you. Whether or not she even acknowledges these changes are not. Do it FOR oops!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
