She had valid complaints with me from before all this in that I was stoic, aloof, not affectionate enough, weak, and most of all just a grumpy miserable person. I own that.
YOu should go look at what I wrote to si. After BD you have to be judicious in what you 180 on. Stoic and aloof are not things you need to 180 on, you need to be those things now. Do you really think you should start being affectionate now? Of course not. WAS: "I need space." Doesn't mean, "all of the sudden start hugging and kissing me all the time."
Grumpt and miserable, yeah 180 on that!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018