In general, anything that is a To Do on her list for me is micromanaged and anything I ask her To Do doesn't get done or even looked at.
Yeah, that sounds about typical. Their minds are like Swiss cheese. Something they want is most important, everything else - hardly a thought. It shows up in those little things, incoherent texts, half done schedules, and such.
You are so correct, what happens when her divorce doesn’t solve her problems. Still, not much you can do, she is hellbent on a D, just let her do the heavy lifting.
I am glad your son joined flag football, and you decided to coach. I’m sure it will be a lot of fun for both of you.
Originally Posted by Label
I do wish she would stop buffing her face with chemical peels and laser treatment. It's not helping.
Lol. OMG. Isn’t that the truth.
They seem to get stuck on something, like chemical peels, and become obsessive towards them, towards the benefits of whatever it is.
My W obsessively took up exercising. Getting up two hours early, and working out. Riding her bike all day. Working in the garden all day. She wore herself down to a thin little woman - far too skinny and unhealthy. Something to do with pushing off mortality, in her poor mind.
They do a lot in the pursuit of youth, and lose so much in the process.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
