Oh I'm good, thanks for asking. Just living my life without worry of her or hers. She still wants a D and keeps asking for me to schedule time with a mediator. I've asked her to separate finances, but she seems to be reluctant and isn't doing anything about that. In general, anything that is a To Do on her list for me is micromanaged and anything I ask her To Do doesn't get done or even looked at.
She is definitely h@llbent on a D. I just wonder what will happen when that day comes and her problems aren't solved.
She does seem much calmer. We seem to be out of the anger stage which was about six months of nastiness, but then again I haven't given or engaged in anything that could be turned into a tiff. I'm just done with that.
It's those little odd things though - - this weekend she asked me to fix our electric fence since she can't seem to keep our dog in the yard. Even though she is actively looking at rentals and doesn't want the dog. I'm like "why do you care, aren't you outta here?" - some weeks she will put a kids activities on my calendar, other times just on hers. - txt/emails are sometimes incoherent.
Kids are good. My son started flag football today. I signed up to be the coach, knowing it was the only way to get him on the field. He loved it. We had a great time together.
I do wish she would stop buffing her face with chemical peels and laser treatment. It's not helping.
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