Well yeah ultimately if your needs are not being met you need to be able to walk away. My point is if you need transparency to protect yourself tell her. If you need sex in a relationship tell her. If she can't meet you needs then you have no choice but to walkway.
Instead you don't require transparency and sex and then you become passive aggressive and pissed off when your needs aren't met.
It's not like your requests are outlandish. When someone cheats transparency should be a must. In a marriage sex should be a must. Your problem is your being driven by fear and that is never a good way to live your life.
Look man I can tell you from experience I lived in limbo for a year and a half and it was soul sucking. Being divorced is 100 times better then living in limbo.
