My biggest fear is I’m too detached. She is acting dismissive to my lack of attention towards her. It’s kind of like, I’m mistreating her now. I try to be positive but she’s definitely feeling the lack of attention. She will roll her eyes a bit and say “ok” in a manner of why are you so pissed off. I honestly can’t believe she could not recognize all the damage she has done.

How do I continue to Detach when it feels like it’s upsetting her?