I'm reading a lot of excuses in your last post. Your boundaries are your boundaries and you don't have to ignore them for anyone.
I think it's simple, you need to ask yourself if you can live out the remaining years on this planet like you are currently. I don't think anything will change organically. Changes will only be made based on your actions.
Perhaps I am misunderstanding your posts?
Nobody can make you angry. You have to grant them that power. If they say something derogatory, you have a choice. You have this power or should have it.
As for the simple question? Past performance is no guarantee of future results.
I know you want me to leave her LH. I will leave when I'm ready, thank you.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
