So the W and MIL came by today, we discussed who's going to take what in the house. She's planning to get a storage unit and needed to know what size she was going to get. So now that I know what's going where I can actually start packing my stuff up. She's putting in her notice to the landlord on the 1st, so that gives me 30 days. I don't have a place lined up do to inability to save having the truck, but now that I got the car I'll have a boost every month. Trying to set up a plan for me right now. My parents have a storage unit that they are going to clean out tonight or tomorrow to make room for my stuff, so no cost to store anything. And I'm trying to meet up with a close friend tomorrow for lunch to talk about me staying with him for a few months while I save some money to pay off this 401k loan and get another out. He's already told me I can stay there if it came down to it, just want to work out the details. As for my dogs and cat my parents have offered to take them while I stay at my friends until I get my own place.
So in general the puzzle pieces are starting to fall into place, didn't really want to burden my friend with me staying there but I don't really have much of a choice, I prolonged the inevitable as long as I could.
M(32) W(30) Together 12yrs Married 2yrs ILYBNILWY 11/23/18 EA Discovered 3/20/19
In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19 W Moved out 3/20/19 M Moved out 5/31/19 W Filed for D 3/3/2020