I haven't done this is months. But W's former OM quit his job working for my friend. So just for the hell of it, I checked W's phone text message log. Last week, there were a few texts back and forth between W and OM. Granted, I'm not 100% sure this is OM's number, but when this all started that number lined up with times they communicated.
I'm on the verge of flipping out.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14