Well, in my "try whatever approach". Anotherstander, I sent a text with your exact words. Yes, a text because I am still pissed and knew that I could never pull it off with the right tone and delivery in person.
Her response:" Thank you for that. I will be happy to tell you what I'm doing and who with."
The fact that I was blamed for the whole pile of crap still resonates but I will try to keep that to my self. My last text yesterday was "Who's husband's arm am I going to push you into this time?"
This resonates with me because I had never said this type of damning statement before. I said plenty of condemning things, but not from the approach of the fact that there was this other guy, but that he was someone else's husband. Perhaps this has stuck because it is one thing that can not be blamed on me. It is, in fact, something that I believe my W will have trouble self-justifying. She violated another woman's marriage. Yes, this is mindreading. It is also all I have. I believe that this dose of reality could do an ole girl some good.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
